Don’t be an accidental side-chick – Joro Olumofin advises ladies

Popular and controversial Nigerian Love Doctor, Joro Olumofin has come once again with his nuggets for ladies in a relationship. And this time, he advised ladies against becoming an accidental side-chick.

In a caption he made in an Instagram post on his page, accompanied with a lengthy post, he encouraged ladies to engage in adequate research before making the decision to settle with a man so as not to end up with the wrong person.

He wrote:

Don’t be an accidental side-chick

This Journal Is Inspired By An Incident That Happened To A Female Friend Of Mine. She’s been happily dating a guy for 9 months and to her shock she ran into this guy, her “So Called Boyfriend” at a friends church with his wife and 3 sons all wearing matching colors attending a thanksgiving service. She’s been emotionally drained and most importantly asking herself ‘how did this happen to her?’ Because she didn’t know he was married. .

Ladies don’t be a Sheep in a World full of Wolves. This being said, when you meet a guy who has taken an interest in you , don’t go into that relationship on “face validity” alone. Do a proper research on him, what a Psychologist would call “Construct Validity” I.e thorough search, bring out your inner FBI and CIA, don’t bother if you look like a stalker, you’re looking out for yourself. Google his name, check your mutual friends on Facebook, Instagram ,Twitter and any social media.

Ask these mutual friends about him, his past relationships, etc you’ll be surprised what you may find out. And for those who didn’t do any research on their man and are dating him already, here are some red flags to look out for to know if he’s married or has another Girlfriend.

1⃣ Any guy who continuously doesn’t answer his phone or reply messages past 9pm.
2⃣ Any guy who has the perfect excuse for you not meeting his friends or family members for a long period of time
3⃣ Any guy who never wants to go anywhere public like a mall, cinema, beach etc. always private bars or guest house
4⃣ Any guy who tries to replace time spending with you with gifts and money
5⃣ Any guy who doesn’t update pictures on whatsapp or any social media “too coded guys” ( you can’t know what they are up to
6⃣ Any guy who disappears on his Birthday or Valentine’s Day in the name of business trip.

All these are red flags you should look out for. .

Ladies, you don’t want to have an imaginary boyfriend or be with someone who has a family somewhere. The most important factor here is TIME. .

You don’t want to lose years or months of your life in an imaginary relationship that won’t bare any fruits.

Source: Lailasnews

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  1. It a good advice thanks

  2. Actually true… I agree to that

  3. Hmm I won’t talk o

  4. Its true talk

  5. Well some how true

  6. is a good article

  7. he’s saying the undiluted truth

  8. True word

  9. Life is hard oooooooooo

  10. You are saying the right thing o

  11. Thanks for saying the truth

  12. Let she that has an ear, hear this wise words

  13. Nice advice for the ladies

  14. Thanks Joro

  15. very good advice

  16. Thank you lord

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