Top 8 Most Important Signs, Warnings And Bullshit Alarms You Need To Take Note Of In The People Around You

Written by Alden Tan

Originally answered here on Quora!

1) If your boyfriend or girlfriend has shitty friends, it’s likely that they too are pretty shitty. It may not be obvious at first, but at their darkest, most emotional moments, you’ll see that shittiness. Be wary.

2) When way too many people has something bad to say about someone, you need to listen. Most people would argue that you should form your own opinion and not listen to gossip or hearsay, but come on, if freaking twenty, or even ten people say the same thing, you’ve to be on your guard.

3) When a person you know is constantly indulging in Facebook drama. Maybe they argue publicly online. Maybe they love taking videos of strangers and posting them. Maybe they love taking screenshots of conversations and posting them. Whatever. If that person can do it to someone, he or she can easily do the same to you.

4) If your friend is nice to you, but not to the waiter, cashier, cab driver or janitor, then your friend is not a nice person. Period.

5) A person who uses flowery language to butter you up and praise you for no reason are just trying to sell you something or make use of you. In other words, they’re hypocrites. Learn how to detect flowery language and pretentiousness in a person.

6) When somebody doesn’t reply on time and pretty much ghost on you, they’re hiding something. No one is that busy in life. If your partner is unaccountable like that, it’s time to really dig out the truth.

7) If you think your friend or family is suffering from depression, please help them in whatever way possible immediately. Suicide is real as fuck. Do not take this for granted and do not ignore. Try your best.

8) Your gut. If you’ve a nagging voice in your head. If you don’t feel good deep down. If you feel sick in your stomach. If the mere thought of someone pisses you off. Run away. Your gut is rarely ever wrong. Give yourself a chance.

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  1. Nice write up. Kudos to the presenter

  2. Kudos to the writer

  3. Nice word of advice though

  4. Hmmm. This is deep stuff.

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  6. I dove my cap boss

  7. Am learning something here

  8. Nice write up,but I don’t agree with all of the point mentioned above

  9. You have made so many good points

  10. Noce one. Important point brought out

  11. I know sombody that belongs to number 6….i hardly chat with her..thank you for this post..

  12. Wow a great lesson

  13. This is good lesson, kudos

  14. Very good example

  15. Nice write-up, I hope to make good use of them

  16. Lolz i love these. So true

  17. Great information passed here

  18. true talk. so helpful

  19. Educative write up . Big ups to the writer

  20. Accurate
    I trust my instincts

  21. I like that rip number5

  22. Nice writeup and informative

  23. It was helpful

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