What To Do When Your Partner Isn’t Sexually Adventurous

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If you want a healthy sex life, it’s important that you find a partner with whom you’re sexually compatible. But what happens when you’re more willing to push the boundaries of conventional than your partner is?

When you’re sexually adventurous in bed and your partner prefers to stay vanilla, you may have some problems. For one thing, you may start feeling like your needs aren’t being met which can make your man feel inadequate. How do you handle situations like these?

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Talk about it

A lot can be achieved in a relationship when two partners learn to express their needs in an effective manner. Talk to your man about your fantasies and a few things you’ll like to try in bed. If he has reservations, encourage him to share them. Perhaps he’s feeling insecure or worried about a less-than-desirable outcome. If you can talk about it, you will understand each other much better. You may alleviate his concerns and he also gets to see things from your perspective.

Start small

Maybe you have role-playing fantasies or you’d like to try bondage sex. When you’re sexually adventurous, it’s crucial to take things slow with a new partner. For example, you can take the first steps into role-playing by simply talking the part instead of acting/dressing it. As for tying him up, start doing this during foreplay instead of the whole sex session. Give him a chance to get comfortable.

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Respect his boundaries

It’s possible that a compromise cannot be reached in situations like this. If your partner is not sexually adventurous and just isn’t into all that kink, you should respect his boundaries. Don’t sulk or resort to anger if he doesn’t like what you do in the bedroom. If you cannot find a middle ground, it’s possible that you’re just not compatible in the bedroom. You should consider ending the relationship especially when you know you cannot be satisfied with what he’s offering.

For more on the topic, here are some sex acts that require special consent before you put them into action.

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  1. Uhm ..nothing can be done
    She can’t stand sex she can’t
    You need to get another babe

  2. Don’t make the mistake from the beginning.

  3. Two sexually incompatible people can not be in a relationship. One will cheat. Why cheat when you can quit and find a more compatible partner.

  4. Is sex everything about relationship?? For me it’s not

  5. Thanks for the information

  6. Sex life is very important in marriages.

  7. Exactly talking to each other can go a long way in solving problems in a relationship

  8. Sex isn’t everything

  9. tnx for the wonderful advice

  10. Love this article

  11. Sex sex sex everywhere…how did we get to this point

    Since when has sex become d major factor in a relationship….o ga ooo

    There’s more to offer in a relationship Dan sex Biko……someone that can satisfy sexually but cant challenge u academically, socially, etc what’s now the point….iron sharpeneth iron

  12. couple should always satisfy each other sexually

  13. thanks for the information

  14. Thanks for the the good information

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